The good news is that these behaviors, though they can thwart a successful dating life if left unchecked, can totally be changed if you make an effort.READ: How to Deal With the 3 Most Difficult Types of People Check out the shy behaviors below and see if any of them apply to you. The key to dating is to avoid taking the whole thing too seriously.Sometimes shy men and women can be people pleasers.
When it comes to planning dates with someone new, shy people tend to be too passive.
Instead of waiting to hear what your date suggests, have a couple ideas in mind before you actually start planning with him or her.
Say, “I’m not sure if this is your thing, but if you want to eat, we could try this place I like; if you would prefer to do some sort of activity, we could do a movie or walk through a museum.” By taking an active approach in dating, you won’t default to your shy ways as easily.
Shy men and women almost always have a lot to say — if only you ask them.
Every personality comes with its own strengths and weaknesses.With dating, shy men and women come to the table with a minor disadvantage because dating is a social activity, and shy people have a hard time putting their best foot forward with people brand-new to them.