In addition, prevalence of PDV victimization was greater among black males (13.7%) than white males (6.6%) and higher among black females (14.0%) than white females (7.5%) and Hispanic females (9.2%). In some instances, women pinched, slapped and hit men who tried to stop their advances.Note: If you have been the victim of dating violence (hitting, kicking, coerced into sex, stalking) please e-mail me and tell me about it. A few men reported that women blackmailed them into having sex by threatening to divulge damaging information to parents, employers or girlfriends. Martin Fiebert examines reasons women give for assaulting men.According to the Centers for Disease Control, now more males than females are victims of teenage dating violence.Their 2003 Youth Risk Behavior Survey report found "that 8.9% of students (8.9% of males and 8.8% of females) reported PDV victimization during the 12 months preceding the survey." But the 2009 survey shows 9.3% of females, 10.3% of males were victims of physical violence.The prevalence of PDV victimization was similar for males (8.9%) and females (8.8%) and similar by grade level (range: 8.1%--10.1%) (Table 1). The Centers for Disease Control "cook" the data and ignore their own study on domestic violence to gender-polarize the issue of dating violence, but many studies show that women initiate dating violence about as often as men. The woman then manually or orally stimulates him to erection and mounts him for sexual intercourse.Prevalence of reported PDV victimization was greater among blacks (13.9%) than whites (7.0%) and Hispanics (9.3%). Sexually aggressive women only occasionally resort to force tactics, which we define as intimidation with size, threats of harm including blackmail, physical restraint, physical harm or use of a weapon. Women locked men into cars, blocked their retreat from a room, grabbed at them, threw them down on beds and floors, sat on them, and tied them up.A (male) member of the Board of the Washington Coalition of Sexual Assault Programs told me of the son of a friend. Men, like women, feel cheap and slimy after an event like that. JAMA emergency room study shows equal number of men, woman victims. "Victims of Dating Violence Among High School Students." Violence Against Women, 4(2): 195-223.
The results indicated that 8.9% of students (8.9% of males and 8.8% of females) reported PDV victimization during the 12 months preceding the survey and that students reporting PDV victimization were more likely to engage in four of the five risk behaviors (i.e., sexual intercourse, attempted suicide, episodic heavy drinking, and physical fighting). Know a young man who may be the victim of dating assault or sexual coercion? Often, it'll be enough to get him to talk to you about it -- if not right away, perhaps in a bit. "Date Rape" is being coerced into having unwanted sex. Another common approach of sexually aggressive women is to take advantage of a man's intoxicated state.
(emphasis added) Among all 14,956 students, 8.9% reported experiencing PDV victimization. And talking to another man about it is the first step in healing -- in survival. There are lots of forms of coercionphysical force, as in traditional "sexual assault" or rape, is only one. A typical scenario, according to male victims, involves a predatory woman who encounters an inebriated man (or contributes to his drinking) and pursues him until he falls asleep or passes out.