After talking to both of my suitors (one on Gchat and the other on OKCupid instant messenger) for several days in a row about things like family, hobbies, and careers, they both brought up the topic of sex.As I’m sure you can tell about me, I’m a pretty open person when it comes to my sex life.
I don’t usually have a problem discussing my likes and dislikes or my past experiences. But these two guys, who both seem to have their shit together enough, took me by surprise when they ventured into no man’s land before we’d even met in person.I’ve come across a bunch of guys online who’ve messaged me and, off the bat, said things like “We should fuck! At the end of one of our hour-long chats, Hot Doctor asked me what my “sexual personality” was like, explaining that he only asked because he wants to make sure the person he ends up with is on the same page as him when it comes to “the physical stuff,” as well as the emotional stuff.The other guy, whom I’ve dubbed Sensitive Frat Bro, is a sweet entrepreneur who could just as easily be wearing a toga and chugging a beer on a Phi Kappa Tau recruitment poster.Eligible bachelors on free dating websites (and in life) are pretty hard to come by, so I decided to message them back.
He went on: “I am looking for someone who is fun and outgoing, who is able to keep up with a Scorpio.My ex was very shy, insecure and reserved, even in private, and since I love doing certain things in a relationship and want the girl to enjoy them, I like a girl who is open and able to do the same sexually and romantically. ” I responded by telling him that I was slightly taken back by his question, but that I also have a personality similar to his. I love giving to the girl I’m with and I want my partner to have the same sexual appetite.” Initially, that weirded me out.