Few men chose any of the other answers implying they were good with driving et al. Anyhow, MMM says that the results show that a woman wants the man to chose, while the man would like the woman to choose - uh, guys... If you are not Japanese (like the expert, sexsmith or author) you probably have never attended such parties and, they may not be known to you anyway.The Japanese man answer, while on the surface seems smart, shows a distinct lack of confidence, according to my friend Mister Manfred Mann, a noted global sexsmith and former blogger who got bored after achieving two million hits in two years of writing. More often than not, nomakai are for the Japanese only.In most instances, I was asked out—no effort required. and with little to zero immigration, Japan's population is getting older, and older, not to mention fewer and fewer. sexual boredom aside, lets instead look at the people who might still want to have sex or date... and it sure sounds a heck of a lot like what men used to do in the old days of forever when they were trying to woo a woman. I'd rather pay, however, especially on a first date. I found a survey asking Japanese women between the ages of 20-40 how they rated a man on a first date—or any date for that matter. and I have, in my day, done a lot of 'dating' of Japanese women. That's all well and good if you are willing to spend a few bucks, and if it works for you, coolio. let me break down a few free bits of information I found on-line, and then provide you with a sure-fire way of getting a real Japanese woman. I should point out here, that Japanese people in general are no longer seeing the benefits of marriage, let alone dating or even having sex with a spouse or significant other. it's like they are a different species from whatever type of woman you have around you in your country. But, I suppose you want to know how, which is why you are here... Looking within the Internet, there are many sites that purport to help you meet real Japanese women. First off: there are 40-year-old single Japanese women??!! I figured their parents and Japanese societal pressures would have them all married off before they became old maids at the age of 28!!because as gloomy as a negative birthrate seems, there are still a lot of Japanese men and women who are interested in dating, sex and procreation. a survey of 20-40-year-old Japanese women rating a man on a date: These women were provided with a multiple choice question on what was important to them on a date. Before cars, assume a horse and carriage, or even just walking up and escorting them to and fro. Allow me to pay for the hotel, rather than expect us to fog up my white car.Here are the results: If you want a successful date, you as the man, not only do you need to choose what you are going to do on a date (decide for both of you), pick her up in your white car (that bicycle won't cut it), pay for the meal and everything you do, drive her home (don't have her take a bus, train or cab)—or in other words, there is no such thing as a woman who is 'free for the evening'. Japanese men were also asked the same questions—but surprise, surprise, Japanese men—some 65.3 percent of them—wanted the woman to decided what the date should consist of (walk, movie, drinks, etcetera). Githinji, an on-line dating expert (how the hell does one become an expert and have the balls to call oneself an expert?! I'm pretty sure he only went to the school of hard knockers), the first thing one needs to do is to figure out WHERE you can meet real Japanese women.
that way, if they go where they want to go, she's happy and the guy will be too. She doesn't have to go out with you again - even if you ask. He says a nomikai can take place at an izakaya (a bar or a cafe).
It's to meet people and make new friends, and if he's cute, then maybe something more), or at a bar, Githinji says the best way to meet women is on-lie... He says you need special preparation if you want your relationship with a real Japanese woman go anywhere. Githinji says that Japanese women (he actually uses the term 'girls' - sorry dude, you don't want a girl—you want a woman!