If I ever lost more, I wouldn't want somebody to not be attracted to me and I've heard stories of that. I think some of them are attracted to bigger guys, but actually I would say it's about half and half. I have had, I would say maybe once or twice, when I get kind of a funny look.I guess it's just part of dating someone a different size than you.
I think it's harder for most BBW women to go to the bars and pick a guy up because they don't know if the guy is interested or not. If that's the body type they're interested in, online dating makes that a lot easier. A lot of these women have had surgeries and have lost weight, but they still stay involved with the community. But I also think that it's easier to say, "This is what I am interested in so I am going to message this person," and the same thing goes for men who are interested in BBW women.