I would change my likes and dislikes according to my boyfriend's preferences. Enabling can happen by either ignoring a situation or stepping in too much.
A: Several people said to me, when I mentioned I was writing this book, "Oh, what are you going to say? " It's sometimes said that you can't have a good relationship with somebody in recovery. They're familiar with the behavior, and it's comforting for them.This can be OK as long as those dating addicts have their act together.