The first thing Amy needed to know is what single men are looking for in a woman and then adjust her profile to reflect these qualities.
Posting a profile as a man for a month, she examined how the "popular" women on JDate described themselves.
told the fascinating story of one woman's unusual online dating success story.
After a series of terrible dates, Amy Web, 30, decided to get serious about her approach to dating online.
Professional shots are perfectly fine, but not required. Start your profile by sharing your interests and hobbies rather than talking about work or children.And worse, you don't want to bring out a sense of competition in a man—that is the most anti-romantic thing you can do!I am not suggesting that you dumb down your accomplishments or not be yourself, but this is only for the profile.You won't look like you are trying too hard—you'll just look your best! If you have some activities you know men like too, note those first to catch a man's attention. Even if your career is your life, it is your most attractive quality.
That said, Amy points out it was better to leave her black belt in Aikido out completely since it did prompt a few guys to want to fight with her! You want to appeal to men on a more personal level, demonstrating the enjoyment you'll be bringing to his life (as you would want from him, too, right? A woman who is all about business won't seem like much fun.You just don't want to seem like all work and no play.4. Responding to a man’s email within 24 hours works best.