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Cohen, an assistant professor in the Department of Psychology at St.

Francis College and co-founder of the Self-Awareness and Bonding Lab.

But then you grow up, and the actual dating scene looks a little more like this: You swipe right, and so does he. Nancy Jo Sales announced the fall of classic courtship in her September piece for Vanity Fair, aptly titled, “Tinder and the Dawn of the ‘Dating Apocalypse.’” Aziz Ansari’s new book, Modern Romance, details the pains of sifting through piles of electronic choices, only to ultimately come up empty-handed — and disheartened. I look for that inexplicable “click.” I’m not the hook-up type. Before making my decision, I need to understand how to do it the right way — without it being a total waste of my time and energy (or a source of stress).

Like tons of other singles, I’ve signed up for the apps and websites that promise easy, endless matches: Match, e Harmony, Tinder, Hinge, Coffee Meets Bagel, OKCupid — you name it, I’ve tried it. What are the pitfalls — and why might it be better than IRL dating? If you prize options above all else, online and app dating delivers that in spades.

But I had a sneaking suspicion that this 21st-century way of dating might actually be stunting our personal growth.

After all, everyone knows that couple who met on an app or dating site and is now happily hitched.

App and online dating is literally a mile-long buffet, with something to satisfy any craving.

Even someone who is really, really good at meeting potential matches in person (which is, uh, not me) would only be able to meet a few people a day, max, says Marisa T.

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You meet a nice person, who you ask on a date (or maybe he/she asks you on the date). You make things “official.” Before you know it, you’re both on the road to happily-ever-after. Walk through any bar or restaurant on a Saturday night, and you’re more likely to see singles swiping their phone screens instead of talking to real-life potential matches. But I’m also a person who values her time and emotional investment (like most people).

online dating allows us to ‘meet’ people without ever leaving home or the office.”This is the major pro of virtual dating methods, says Dylan Selterman, Ph D, a professor of psychology at the University of Maryland.

I got endless matches, all right, but I also didn’t know which matches were worth my time. Within 48 hours of joining Tinder, I had about 200 matches — which, as a writer/professional hermit, is probably more than I’d meet in five years doing the meet-and-greet method.

Are we now too afraid to approach interesting people in real life because we know we can just go back to the comparative “ease” of approaching people online?

“Online sites dramatically increase the pool of eligible partners for those interested in finding a mate,” Cohen tells me.“In a society in which we are often too busy to take a break …

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