It took time for me to figure that out and to figure out my talents, my strengths and to attract men to me that really resonated with my heart.It doesn’t mean they’d talk negatively but they would talk about that time when this happened or whatever, and it was like they hadn’t healed yet.I actually think it takes people a minimum of one year and probably more like two years before they really even think about getting into a relationship. I don’t think that there’s one true answer for anything, I think that’s more of a guideline.Sooner or later most people start dating after divorce. We’ve been dating for two years now and it’s wonderful to have a man in my life that I truly love.I knew from her newsletter that my current guest, Debbi was in a relationship so I asked her to talk about her experience dating after divorce. You don’t go from being married and turn around and get married again.What became so evident then was that I knew who I was as a person.
You don’t want to go from one relationship and jump into another relationship. I would tell anyone looking to start dating after divorce not to be in a hurry. I think it was year four when my ex came back and I started getting into the dating scene, because all of the sudden I had weekends open, and I was interested.I went on occasional dates, and I took advantage of that time and did the online dating routine.