Please register to participate in our discussions with 1.5 million other members - it's free and quick! Diabetes runs in my family, and seeing amputations first hand in relatives due to poor circulation/working in the health field - I don't want that for me, or the person I'm in a relationship with.
Some forums can only be seen by registered members. At this point we're just dating, but if we have a relationship together - I really don't want to gain weight. I'd love for her to slim down, and would want to be there for her, since I like many other things about her.
After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. I met someone from a dating website recently - she has a very attractive face, is highly intelligent (pursuing Ph D), has a great sense of humor, and has many of the check marks I value in a relationship. So is it fair to begin a relationship under that circumstance?
The only "negative" is she's "bigger" than what I usually date. For the "bigger" people here - how would you feel if someone began a relationship with you, with that as the intention? If I could speak to her, here is what I would say: "This man says you are pretty, intelligent, have a great sense of humor, plus lots of other qualities he greatly admires.