One friend with an actual boyfriend of 2 months commented that 2 months is long for Beijing.
Even if a guy has a girlfriend or wife, it often doesn’t keep him from going after other women.
Likewise, many women, including many Chinese girls, are not deterred by the guy having a girlfriend (or wife), knowing that the guy likely won’t be either.As said before, Beijing is not a relationship place.They often enjoy tremendous attention from local and foreign women alike.They seem to have the choice, and enjoy trying out what’s on offer.
And they agree with the women, Beijing is not a relationship place. The typical notion of dating, meaning going out for dinner or a movie, having a drink afterwards, talking and some kissing, maybe even repeat before having sex, that kind of dating does not seem a common occurrence in Beijing.One-night-stands or short casual flings seem the norm for many guys before they move on to the next women.